work like you don't need the money, love like you've never been hurt, and dance like there's no one watching — "write like there are no critics."
Halfway through the first Anita Blake book by Laurell K. Hamilton and I cannot wait to read more! Guilty Pleasures, it's called, and hot damn is it EVER!
I've been reading vampire novels since I got bored waiting for Stephen King to come out with another Dark Tower installment oh so many years ago. I got hooked on Anne Rice and thought she was the be-all and end-all of vampire writers. I had picked up 1 or 2 of the Anita Blake books from the library when I was in school and somehow never read them. I have some catching up to do.
Off to work. My dinner break won't come fast enough! I can't wait to read more!
I've been reading vampire novels since I got bored waiting for Stephen King to come out with another Dark Tower installment oh so many years ago. I got hooked on Anne Rice and thought she was the be-all and end-all of vampire writers. I had picked up 1 or 2 of the Anita Blake books from the library when I was in school and somehow never read them. I have some catching up to do.
Off to work. My dinner break won't come fast enough! I can't wait to read more!
- I'm feelin'...:
enthralled - I'm listening to...:Bloodletting: The Vampire Song by Concrete Blonde
My boss emailed this to our region today. As much as I chafe against the bonds of retail management, one of the reasons I stay (at this particular company) is that I work for and with one of the best women I know. She's boss, mentor, friend and just a fun whirl-wind of a person to be around. I wanted to share with you what she wrote because I found it inspiring. As we have just 1 more sleep until the man in the shiny red suit and long white beard arrives, when all the hustle and bustle stops just for 1 day ....
My 1 wish for everyone is simply... time!
Time set aside to relax, refresh and reflect.
May your holiday season be overflowing with joy, love and gratitude, with my sincere wishes for health, happiness and prosperity ..
And as we reflect on what is truly amazing in our life ..think simply that...
Life is a journey so enjoy the ride. Get the most out of the detours and realize they're sometimes necessary.
Do your best, even if what you've been doing isn't working, try a different approach.
Be passionate about the process; don't be so attached to the outcome.
Wish the best for everyone, with no personal strings attached. Applaud someone else's win as much as you would your own.
Trust that there is a divine plan, that we don't always know what's best for us.
A disappointment now could be a victory later, so don't be disappointed. There is usually a reason.
Ask no more of yourself than the best that you can do, and be satisfied with that.
Be compassionate toward yourself as well as others. Know your calling, your gift, and do it well.
Don't worry about something after it's done; it's out of your hands then, too late, its over! Learn the lesson and move on.
Have the attitude that no one, except you owes you anything. Give without expecting a thank-you in return. But when someone does something for you, be appreciative of even the smallest gesture.
Choose your thoughts or your thoughts will choose you; they will free you or keep you bound.
Educate your spirit and give it authority over your feelings.
Judge no one, and disappointment and forgiveness won't be an issue. No one can let you down if you are not leaning on them. People can't hurt you unless you allow them to.
Love anyway...for no reason...and give...just because.
I wish you all safe travels and a wonderful holiday. Love always, BJ
- I'm feelin'...:
content
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Click here to find out what you really want to get this Christmas!

Oh! And I forgot to mention, I have a brand new photo shoot posted! Come check it out!
- I'm feelin'...:
naughty - I'm listening to...:Santa Baby by Holly Cole
downed an energy drink on the way home from work b/c we were supposed to go party...but now we're not & now I'm wired. Wanna help me burn some energy?
- I'm feelin'...:
naughty - I'm listening to...:Womanizer- BS
cold outside. Painfully, cold. You wanna know how I can be so certain of this? I went the grocery store to pick up something for dinner. Then I dropped the movie off at the video store. Then I realized that I locked my keys in the car. The car was still running. I went inside the video store. Called a friend. He's out of town. No one else to call except Jefe who was at home, warming up after a disastrous bus ride home from work. He didn't pick up the phone. So I left a message and started to walk. Why not take a cab? My wallet was still in my car and it's really only a 10 minute walk home from where I was. However, IT'S BLEEDING FREEZING OUTSIDE!!!! Jefe met me when I was about 3/4 of the way home. My chest and nose feel like burning. We need a second car. And cell phones.
*coughs and shivers violently*
*coughs and shivers violently*
- I'm feelin'...:
cold - I'm listening to...:I'll let you know when the ringing in my ears stops
One more light has gone out in the world.
- I'm feelin'...:
contemplative
I can get bogged down by some useless shit! Time to get back to living instead of drifting.
- I'm feelin'...:
determined
Damn, where has the time gone? Last week was full of ups and downs, the highlight being the previous weekend when my hubby and I finally got to see Claudia and Jason again since we had dinner with them and Olivia in October. It was the most time the 4 of us spent together since our vacation in August! And once again, the food was amazing, the most delicious and comforting food ever! We watched The House Bunny (I loved it!) and then Sunday afternoon we got inspired and made lip balm. I had no idea it was so easy! Now I have requests and an offer to design a label for us. One of my hubby's co-workers is graphic arts student and a fabulous artist, she's designing artwork for his guitar cases as well.
Then the week went downhill, 6 days in a row of work with 10 and 11 hour days, a manager's meeting out of town, which was very product and I actually ended up being the star of the show which was really cool and a bit of a much needed ego boost....the meeting was late finishing and once again it turned into a 10 hr day. Exhausting, especially considering I am not used to spending that much time sitting on my ass! I'm used to running around a 6000 sq ft + store, up and down ladders, climbing shelves in the back room, but not just sitting.
The week got worse when my key called in sick and I had to work open to close on Thursday, screwing up my plans for a shoot that night, I had to go in early on Friday, open to close on Saturday and then rushing around for my hubby's work Christmas party. I did my hair and makeup on my lunch break and then flew home to change my clothes and boot it to the party. The party was meh in terms of food, but that's the norm for the company, it's the crazy staff that make it worthwhile. Jefe and his musical partner in crime played some tunes for us and the girls got up and danced and fooled around until everyone else was gone and we packed it in. Sunday was another long day, I lived through Monday and now I am contemplating where to put my Christmas tree this year. I hate my apartment.
Now it's time to send my update in, I wanted it in last week but there was just not enough hours in the day to get it edited. But it's done now. Yay! It turned out well, I like playing different roles...
I actually feel better after typing all of this...I really need to get back into the habit of writing...
Well enjoy the rest of your Hump Day!
Then the week went downhill, 6 days in a row of work with 10 and 11 hour days, a manager's meeting out of town, which was very product and I actually ended up being the star of the show which was really cool and a bit of a much needed ego boost....the meeting was late finishing and once again it turned into a 10 hr day. Exhausting, especially considering I am not used to spending that much time sitting on my ass! I'm used to running around a 6000 sq ft + store, up and down ladders, climbing shelves in the back room, but not just sitting.
The week got worse when my key called in sick and I had to work open to close on Thursday, screwing up my plans for a shoot that night, I had to go in early on Friday, open to close on Saturday and then rushing around for my hubby's work Christmas party. I did my hair and makeup on my lunch break and then flew home to change my clothes and boot it to the party. The party was meh in terms of food, but that's the norm for the company, it's the crazy staff that make it worthwhile. Jefe and his musical partner in crime played some tunes for us and the girls got up and danced and fooled around until everyone else was gone and we packed it in. Sunday was another long day, I lived through Monday and now I am contemplating where to put my Christmas tree this year. I hate my apartment.
Now it's time to send my update in, I wanted it in last week but there was just not enough hours in the day to get it edited. But it's done now. Yay! It turned out well, I like playing different roles...
I actually feel better after typing all of this...I really need to get back into the habit of writing...
Well enjoy the rest of your Hump Day!
- Where I'm at:living room on my laptop
- I'm feelin'...:
okay
lookin forward to takin some hot pics in a few hrs...anyone got any ideas they want to see? I'm open to suggestions! idreamofbj@gmail.com
- I'm feelin'...:
naughty - I'm listening to...:Danzig--Wicked Pussycat
I'm wearing extremely long two-tone glow-in-the-dark press on nails that for some obscene reason I don't want to take off. It makes it really difficult to type, or do anything of merit, but they're kinda hot. Who knew?
- I'm feelin'...:
naughty - I'm listening to...:Orion by Metallica as played by hubby...can we say "yummy"?
I think I just got fucked stupid.
How's that for a slice o' fried gold???
How's that for a slice o' fried gold???
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sa-si-fied - I'm listening to...:Closer- NIN
feeling crampy, stuffed up and generally achy. I may have what hubby and every one at his job has had. Yay. :-( Bah! And this is my long week too! But I do have the weekend off! Yay! If all goes as planned we will be part of an 80s themed dance in order to help raise money for the special Olympics. I'm quite looking forward to it. I have to hit Value Village on Saturday to put an outfit together. So thoughts of this are keeping going while I wallow in pain today.
Peace out.
Peace out.
- I'm feelin'...:
crappy
what I've been up to...
- 10:34 tired and cranky this morning. awesome. gotta get some coffee. #
Morning! Bleh. I am so not a morning person. Hubby is sick, really sick with quite a bad cold and I believe I am the plaque carrying rat who gave it to him. I. myself, am not out of the woods yet, I still feel like crap even though I haven't got as sick as my poor man. We shall see. Today will be a long day, my boss will be there but hopefully I can make tomorrow a shorter day. I'm not holding my breath though, LOL it is retail.
That's it for me!
Off to work.
That's it for me!
Off to work.
- I'm feelin'...:
drained
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I would agree with some of this analysis...but not all. I can be wild and I do love sex--shocking, I know. I like to try new things but I wouldn't say that I was "edgy" and if it said "tattoos" instead of "taboos" it would be accurate. LOL
Sexual dabbler, yes, unusual fantasies? I don't think so...but tell me yours and I'll tell you mine! ;-) Open minded partners, yes please! If you're not, you're about to learn a thing or two or you can keep your knickers on and make your own way to the door. You can occupy your own space if you won't open your mind. I am by no means a sex expert but I would LOVE to be one! Anyone want to teach me?? I do, however, give my friends and co-workers advice all the time! Guilty as charged! :D And I do try to help anyone I meet (well almost anyone lol) become a little more sexually liberated.
So....what's SEXY about your name???
I would agree with some of this analysis...but not all. I can be wild and I do love sex--shocking, I know. I like to try new things but I wouldn't say that I was "edgy" and if it said "tattoos" instead of "taboos" it would be accurate. LOL
Sexual dabbler, yes, unusual fantasies? I don't think so...but tell me yours and I'll tell you mine! ;-) Open minded partners, yes please! If you're not, you're about to learn a thing or two or you can keep your knickers on and make your own way to the door. You can occupy your own space if you won't open your mind. I am by no means a sex expert but I would LOVE to be one! Anyone want to teach me?? I do, however, give my friends and co-workers advice all the time! Guilty as charged! :D And I do try to help anyone I meet (well almost anyone lol) become a little more sexually liberated.
So....what's SEXY about your name???
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naughty - I'm listening to...:She Wants to Move by N.E.R.D.
I'm not even kidding! On some level I find this very disturbing. Every celebrity has their own clothing label or perfume line out. In a way it's very predictable.
But for some reason I am drawn to almost anything JT produces. It's a bit silly. I've not been a fan of boy bands or their by-products since NKOTB Version 1.0 when I was 12. But there is something about this now scruffy looking cutie from the backwoods of Tennesse that I find fascinating. He appears to produce quality. He can actually sing, he's definitely got some moves and he's got that boy you can take home to Mom with a small streak of bad boy to keep things interesting. I like that.
I thought my husband was a bad boy before we started dating. He was always nice ot me when we hung out in the same circles, but he always had this unknown and slighty dangerous quality about him. Really he's a teddy bear...one that I would not want to meet on a bad day in the woods after someone has pissed him off, but a really good man. My bosses have always seen him as wonderfully charming, professional, very polite and well spoken, fun. But he's still a bad boy. How do you think he ended up in my room? *wink*
Are you a bad boy? Yeah? Then go to my room! I know what you need...
See this is what happens when I tour the You Tube. Silliness.
But for some reason I am drawn to almost anything JT produces. It's a bit silly. I've not been a fan of boy bands or their by-products since NKOTB Version 1.0 when I was 12. But there is something about this now scruffy looking cutie from the backwoods of Tennesse that I find fascinating. He appears to produce quality. He can actually sing, he's definitely got some moves and he's got that boy you can take home to Mom with a small streak of bad boy to keep things interesting. I like that.
I thought my husband was a bad boy before we started dating. He was always nice ot me when we hung out in the same circles, but he always had this unknown and slighty dangerous quality about him. Really he's a teddy bear...one that I would not want to meet on a bad day in the woods after someone has pissed him off, but a really good man. My bosses have always seen him as wonderfully charming, professional, very polite and well spoken, fun. But he's still a bad boy. How do you think he ended up in my room? *wink*
Are you a bad boy? Yeah? Then go to my room! I know what you need...
See this is what happens when I tour the You Tube. Silliness.
- I'm feelin'...:
naughty - I'm listening to...:Sexy Back
what I've been up to...
- 07:04 Good morning! And what a chilly morning it is! #
what I've been up to...
- 10:32 sitting in my nice clean office & contemplating what I want for a new desk...has to fit in a small space which sucks...but I get to shop :) #
- 10:32 @charitydreamnet...I like the way you think ;-) #
- 19:14 what to do for dinner.... #
what I've been up to...
- 11:17 @curvyclaudia...have a fabulous time in Vegas!! #
